Monday, May 14, 2012

The day is young.....lighten up!

I sometimes wonder why we forget things?
It isn't age.....and there are some interesting-fun-financially beneficial things I have done-and can do again.
 I simply forgot one of those.
 All about it.
I have come to the conclusion:
It is the attitude of certain people that give you an overall distaste for it.
Whatever 'it' may be.
This "it" for me  is market research and one of the companies that use to schedule had the most unpleasant people answering the phone.
I detest rude behaviour.......and totally dislike hostile people, who are having a bad day and want you to suffer with them. Grrrr.
When this person is a "gatekeeper" for a company----they are causing a loss of business for that company.
It is proven in retail business:
 If someone has a bad experience---they rarely contact the corporate headquarters and complain.
Or even ask where that is?
They rarely contact the Store manager and complain.
They simply will not go back.
They boycott the store.....by telling their friends about the rotten experience.
Some people cut other people out of their life the same way.
She was this! or He did that!
Of course, there are some really, really  annoying people that you really never want to have to deal with again...sad, yet true.
Or run the other way when you see them coming......
Negative people experience this....alot, I should imagine.
But what if:
This person is a close family friend? Or a relative.
Does it not irk the living stuffins out of you to have to put up with someone, because, they are rotten to the core and Mom, Dad----fill in the blank--says you have to?
Why?
Let's face it--Friends are the family we choose.
Biological folks,sometimes become mortal enemies, and would never have chosen to even know that person, if not for being related.
Reminds me of the old Mafia movies---once in the family--only one way out.
Laughing....but, it was true?
I think it takes little time or effort to behave like a decent, pleasant  person.
Even if you are unhappy with your day.
Try smiling-----hard to be hostile with a smile planted on your face.
Not talking about psychopaths here.....not today. lol.

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