Who is? Abbey Dosh........

This was the question I was asked this morning by my fiance'.
Well, I really thought he was listening when I told him the last 5 times?
And then yesterday, while reading an article in the April issue of Cosmo, I was a tad astonished.
It said that guys need for you to preface something with, like, say: "I really need you to hear this", for them to assimilate stuff you say.
 Then you tell them.
They are not mentally deficient---just don't filter/retain well.
When it comes to a fast moving, never stopping engineer's brain......times this by 100.
Maybe sit on his chest ( nah-he's a heart patient) and say--"Hey-are you cognizant of what I am saying? Can you hear me?"
Or draw a diagram.........yea, that will be his next Hallmark type offering.
With pointer attached-----THIS IS YOUR CARD!!!!!!!!!
 I can't do it......and so, I guess this means we go thru life with people never hearing each other. Don't like that. Hmmmmm. Or we preface everything we say.
My blog is something I do for me and you.
Abbey Dosh is -Absolutely free stuff.-Info, etc.
I agree we need more of that.
Will get right on it and let you know.......smiles.